
Programs and services
Most people are expected to figure out friendship, dating and relationships on their own. These two courses teach them on purpose.
PEERS® is the social side: starting a conversation, finding your people, handling disagreement, dating. Healthy Relationships starts at friendship and works outward, through consent, sex and how to tell when something's wrong.
For autistic teens and adults.
Casual and frank. There are memes, the examples are real, and consent, red flags and dating get called what they are.
Autistic teens and adults who want the social side of life to make more sense. It usually starts with something specific.
Parents, your questions may be different: how to bring any of this up with your teen, or whether a course is the right fit. Ask Sarah; her details are at the bottom of the page.

Making friends
Conversations start and then stall. You've met people, but it hasn't turned into friendship, and it's hard to see where it goes sideways.

Starting to date
You want to date, or you already are, and nobody explained how it's supposed to work, or how to tell a green flag from a red one.

Straight answers
Nobody gave you the real version, about bodies, sex, consent or relationships. Or you got it in pieces and still have questions.
Signing up is direct. There's no referral, nothing goes through the Massachusetts Department of Developmental Services (DDS), and there's no diagnosis paperwork to send. Teens take a course with others 13 to 17, and adults with others 18 and over, up to 40 for PEERS®.
What a course does ask for is time, a coach for PEERS®, and a fee for adults.
Eight weeks
One session a week, in a set order, so each week builds on the last. All eight weeks are the commitment, so check the dates against your calendar before you sign up.
A social coach
For PEERS®, someone close to you comes every week and meets in a separate room. Not sure who that would be? Say so on the call. Healthy Relationships doesn't need a coach, and you can bring a support person if you like.
What it costs
Adults pay $200 for PEERS® and $250 for Healthy Relationships, by the first session. Teens pay nothing; the state covers it. If cost is in the way, say so: there's a sliding scale, and there are scholarships.
The person taking the course has to want to. Not their parent, and not their service coordinator. Seats are limited, and someone signed up without being asked tends to leave partway through.

What the courses cover
They're separate courses, and you can take either one.
What PEERS® covers
Developed at UCLA, evidence-based, and adapted here for the people in the room. Community Autism Resources (CAR) is a certified provider.
Starting a conversation, keeping it going, and getting out of one.
Finding people you actually have something in common with, which is a different problem from meeting people.
Handling disagreement without the friendship being over.
Dating. What to expect, what to ask for, and what to do when the answer is no.
What to do when a situation goes wrong, in the moment and afterward.
Why PEERS® has a coach
The coach works through the same material in a room next door, so when something gets tried out during the week, somebody outside the room knows what it was. Coaches of teens also take the dating material home, so a parent can bring it up at the right moment for their own teen.
What Healthy Relationships covers, in order
Friendship first, because it's the base of every other kind of relationship. From there:
What a good relationship looks like in practice.
Green flags and red flags, named plainly.
The characteristics of abuse, so they're recognizable before they're familiar.
The physical side, which comes last and is covered properly.
What comprehensive means here
It includes consent and LGBTQ identities, and it covers everybody's anatomy, not only your own. CAR doesn't teach abstinence-only. Nobody can make an informed decision without complete information, and people who know more about sex tend to start later, not earlier.
The gray areas
Very little of this is black and white, and the course doesn't pretend it is. Dating doesn't come in one shape, so the examples are real ones, and there's more than one of them.
Who teaches
PEERS® is taught by CAR staff trained in the UCLA curriculum. Healthy Relationships is taught by educators certified in sex education for adults with disabilities, a credential specific to this work that most people don't know exists.
How to sign up
Saying hello
It gets practiced here, out loud, with people working on the same thing.
Questions people actually ask
PEERS® is an evidence-based social skills curriculum developed at UCLA. Community Autism Resources (CAR) runs it as a course, not a drop-in group, adapted for the people in the room. It covers starting and holding a conversation, finding people you have something in common with, handling disagreement, dating, and what to do when a situation goes sideways.
This page also covers Healthy Relationships, a separate course that starts at friendship and works outward. Both run eight weeks, one session a week.
PEERS® runs in two age groups, 13 to 17 and 18 and over. Teens usually come through a parent, and adults usually sign up themselves. You don't need to be connected to the Massachusetts Department of Developmental Services (DDS), and there's no referral. If you have questions about DDS eligibility, our Family Support team can help.
Email Sarah Walkden at swalkden@communityautism.org or call her at 774-955-0595, and she'll book a short phone call, about ten or fifteen minutes. On the call she'll explain how the course runs, answer your questions, and ask the person who'd be attending whether it's something they want to do.
That last part matters. Seats are limited, and someone signed up by a parent without being asked tends to leave partway through. The answer only has to be yes from the person taking the course. If it's not, say so, and we'll talk through what might fit better.
Eight weeks, one session a week, for both age groups. Dates for the next course go to people on CAR's list first, then into CAR's newsletter and onto its Facebook page. To get on the list, email or call Sarah.
No. It's a course, not a drop-in group. There's a curriculum that runs in a set order, each week builds on the last, and it works like a class: material, discussion, role-play, and something to practice between sessions. People come to learn something specific and then go use it.
Yes. It's comprehensive sex education, and it's called Healthy Relationships because it starts with friendship, the base of every other kind of relationship. From there it covers what good and harmful relationships look like, including green flags, red flags and the characteristics of abuse. The physical side comes last, and it's covered properly.
It includes consent and LGBTQ identities. CAR doesn't teach abstinence-only, and people do ask: nobody can make an informed decision without complete information, and people who know more about sex tend to start later, not earlier.
Students in the Gottschall Access Program take this same course as one of their enrichments. It's one course, not two.
For PEERS®, yes. Every participant brings a social coach, usually a parent, a family member or someone who knows them well. The coach doesn't sit in the session. They meet separately with CAR staff at the same time, so they know what was covered and can help practice it during the week. That's a big part of why PEERS® sticks outside the room.
Healthy Relationships doesn't need a coach. You can bring a support person if you'd like, and plenty of people come on their own.
Healthy Relationships is taught by educators certified in sex education for adults with disabilities, a credential most people don't know exists, and one of them also holds a bachelor's degree in psychology with a focus in gender studies. PEERS® is taught by CAR staff with the official UCLA training. You can meet the team on the staff page.
Life outside a course.
Budgeting, getting around independently, building a life that's yours: that's Individualized Support. It runs on DDS hours, not a course fee.
After high school. The Gottschall Access Program is a three-year college experience on the Bristol Community College campus, funded through DDS. PEERS® is part of its first year and Healthy Relationships is one of its enrichments, so both courses carry straight into it.
College, specifically. A navigator works on the parts of college that aren't the coursework: that's College Navigation.


